Ask yourself...

What is most important in my life?Keep that in front of you and you will discover that most other things get solved by themselves.Your thoughts guide you to your destiny.If you think the same you will always get to the same place.Think in a new way and you will be a new person.
The root of suffering is attachment.You have created a space in your mind that holds a person or object as part of you.When that person or object is criticized,neglected or not with you,you feel pain in your mind and experience a sense of loss.In order to be happy ,learn to love and appreciate while remaining independent.